If chastity is something you’ve been curious about, and you’ve been wondering how to give it a go, I hope this article proves itself useful for you. There’s certainly nothing ‘wrong’ with exploring your consensual kinky interests, and you don’t need to worry that you’re the only person to ever have these thoughts and feelings.
What the Heck is the Purpose of Male Chastity?
The purpose of male chastity in the 21st century is most commonly used in BDSM play. In such a scenario the submissive is locked into a male chastity device by the dominant (referred to as a key holder).
The key holder holds all the keys to the securely fastened chastity device and is the only person whom decides when (or “if”) the chastity device can come off. The length of time is determined by the key holder, and can vary from a few hours to a 24/7 continual chastity lifestyle.
Submissives and dominants alike enjoy male chastity for the surrender/control it offers. The submissive is surrendering their most important organ, and one that can offer the greatest amount of pleasure. While the dominant has full control over said organ during the time spent in the chastity device. During the time the submissive is in a chastity device, he is unable to obtain a full erection. The submissive also cannot have an orgasm until the chastity device comes off.
This experience sounds unpleasant; however, it can be extremely pleasurable. When the submissive attempts to become erect while in this chastity cage, he will only swell up inside, which feels like a firm grip. This builds arousal in the submissive, which can continue to build over time. This pent up arousal can even become more intense than the orgasm they so desire. Once the submissive is freed from male chastity to have their long awaited orgasm, it will be more intense than any other orgasm he has ever experienced in his life. The longer the submissive is in a male chastity device, the more intense the final orgasm will be.
Why Choose Male Chastity?
There are many reasons to choose male chastity. Many couples choose chastity to bring each other closer and introduce more intimacy into the bedroom. There are also many couples looking for something new to try, or something to reignite the spark between them. Most commonly, it is between couples trying to help their partner fulfill a lifelong fantasy of theirs. It is also used by strict BDSM couples for control and to further their kinky experience.
Individuals and couples experimenting with the chastity lifestyle all come from different backgrounds, and all have different reasons for trying it. With all this diversity, there is one common fact shared among nearly all of them – once they’ve tried it, they’re usually hooked! And the more educated you are about chastity, the more fun you can obtain from it.
Now to answer the question of Why Choose Male Chastity? The most predominant reason behind this is to bring couples closer together. Chastity is one of the fastest ways to bring two people closer together than they ever thought imaginable, both romantically and intimately. It will take a dull ember and light it up into a bonfire if used properly.
The second most common reason is to help their partner fulfill a lifelong fantasy. While these two reasons usually go hand-in-hand, it is not always the case. Chastity is a common fetish shared by many individuals; however, it is viewed as “taboo” because many choose to hide their desires. If you’re reading this because of your partner coming forth with their desire for chastity, they really want to engage in this activity with you.
The Psychological Impact of Chastity...
Once the male is locked in chastity, in a very short period of time he will feel an immense urge to please his key holder. He will obtain genuine pleasure out of helping his key holder, and selflessly making him, or her, happy.
The key holder also receives a more upbeat and pleasant partner whom is willing to go out of their way to help them and ensure they are happy. Needless to say, this usually results in both partners overall happiness and connection between each other to rise.
The Benefits of Male Chastity Explained...
There are countless benefits of male chastity to delve into! Some of the most predominant and noticeable benefits include greater intimacy between couples, higher sex drive and libido, an overall happier life, and for dominant/submissive couples – the perfect tool to surrender/take control. Let’s break down these major benefits and highlight a few other outlying benefits of male chastity as well.
Benefit # 1 – Greater Intimacy:
One of the most desirable benefits of male chastity happens shortly after the lock is closed shut for the first time. After the submissive gets their first restricted erection after being locked, sexual tension and frustration quickly flare up, and the submissive feels like they must channel it somehow. This frustration will build and the submissive will begin to find their key holder irresistible. The key holder will start receiving more frequent compliments, more affection and love, their submissive becomes more romantic, and has much more gratitude. Male chastity creates the dream partner!
Benefit # 2 – Higher Sex Drive:
Another glaring benefit is the higher sex drive that naturally comes as a result of the greater intimacy. As the pent of frustration and tension continues to build, it’ll begin to overflow and the sex drive and libido begin to consume the submissive. They will want to pleasure their key holder All-Of-The-Time. Their satisfaction becomes synonymous with their key holder’s satisfaction. The longer the submissive is locked, the better their skills become in the bedroom.
Benefit # 3 – Teasing, Teasing, & More Teasing:
Teasing, and lot’s of it is probably one of the most important benefits of male chastity….All of the benefits of male chastity previously mentioned will work with just minimal teasing. However, teasing is a must. Chastity is much like a campfire, if you don’t continue to gradually add wood (teasing) to it, it will eventually cool down and die, and require a great deal of effort to spark up again. The same is also true in reverse; if you continue to add more and more wood to the fire at the right times, it can blaze up into a massive bonfire of lust and frustration – magnifying all of the aforementioned benefits!
Benefit # 4 – The Perfect Dom/Sub Tool:
For couples into the BDSM lifestyle, a male chastity device, like a cock cage, is the perfect tool to add to your arsenal. Whether you’re looking to take away and control your slave’s ‘favorite toy’, using it for training or behavior correction, or even just as another punishment you can administer; the possibilities are endless! One of the benefits of male chastity you will receive from your slave is complete servitude. By controlling their orgasms, you can control the slave easier than you had ever imagined possible!
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